antonyms - What is the opposite of superficial?



I would like to tell my friend to stop dating men who are so superficial, but state it in a positive way.


Please help me complete the sentence: "You should date men who are more __________."


So far the only word I've been able to come up with is "real" which seems ambiguous and lacks gravitas.



Answer



Pretty common antonyms in this context, both for the literal denotation and figurative connotation, are:



  1. deep

  2. profound

  3. serious

  4. thoughtful


In particular the first two, deep and profound, carry the literal dictionary definition (per Google):



noun, literary: 1. the vast depth of the ocean or of the mind.



Regarding the sentiment you're expressing with "real", you may prefer:



  1. authentic

  2. genuine

  3. sincere

  4. earnest


Which have all the gravitas due polysyllabic words (though I'd argue people using the straightforward and common real are more, well, real).


If these don't suit, they'll serve as good entry points for a thesaurus search.


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